there is no such thing as a good person or a bad person. that framing itself is part of the problem. some actions harm people. some actions help people. some inactions harm people. some inactions help people. even these statements are reductive — but they’re not as polarizing or as thought-killing as “good” and “bad”. if you are trying to help people stop thinking of themselves as on “the good team” or thinking of others as “the bad guys”, I recommend reconsidering your language.