Porn Makes Men Terrible in Bed
Emma Lindsay
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If men are unable to recognize a woman’s queues of distress (due to watching porn) can’t the same thing be said for the woman in this scenario?

Perhaps she is viewing porn and internalizing it as the way that she’s supposed to behave? Therefore the guy keeps doing what he’s doing because he’s under the impression that he’s getting her off when in fact she just wants him to get off (of her)…

What is so difficult about saying, “You know what? I don’t like this. Stop.”

Granted, I can’t relate to this because I’m gay (and only have sex with other dudes). So I don’t know the dynamics between men and women in bed (I don’t even watch straight porn); however, from my own experience, if I don’t like something, I will tell him to STOP.

I’m all about communication during sex.

Sex is not a movie. It’s not going to be this continuous beautifully lit scene, with two beautiful actors, slowly grinding to a awesome soundtrack…
It’s naked, sweaty, and in some cases awkward and weird (but fun)…Therefore, conversation should happen before during and after.

Your partner is not going to know that he’s bad in bed until you tell him and train him.

Personally, I love porn. It has given me ideas in bed; however, I know that it is just fantasy.

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