So I guess the next Vidcon rules should be updated with a new rule:
“If you were born with a vagina and claim to be a victim, Vidcon rules do not apply to you, and Vidcon openly endorses and encourages your harassing behaviour.”.
Vidcon backing Anita in this case is basically Vidcon itself calling its attendees shitheads and garbage human beings. You apologized to a person who broke Vidcon rules and harassed another person in a live panel. Thats open endorsement of harassing behaviour, no excuses.