I’m gay. I write about my life, which involves a healthy amount of sex between consenting adult men. Sex doesn’t dominate my time, thoughts, or motives in the same way that reading does, but it’s an important part of my experience, and I’m not ashamed of it. In fact, I believe shame about sex causes more harm to people than plentiful, dirty fun does. So this is just a gentle warning that I’ll talk about sex in my posts in a way that is, intentionally, shameless. Which is not to say that I’m writing smut here. Just life.