Hi Coach, I am having a similar situation with a girl. She’s 26 and I am 29. We met at a wedding and later add her on Facebook. Then got her number. I’ve been dating her since the last 4 months and I am doing all the calling and pursuing. She never initiates contact and says she’s doesn’t know if she wants to be in a relationship. I did my best to try to make her mine. But I think I was doing things wrong. I cannot take being ignored like this anymore. It’s frustrating. She is not dating anyone else and I am the 1st guy she’s ever dated, but she sure is keeping me as a backup or would be indifferent even if she loses me.
Although I have read your book 10 times, I guess I read it like a robot just to read it “10" times. (Btw I feel fortunate enough to have come across your work. I would highly recommend it to everyone. Thanks you so much, Coach!)
After a long time I found someone who I was really into and matches all the qualities I want in a woman. She’s the same caste as I am and there is no inter-caste marriage in the little society I live in(Sounds weird, I know!). So, I don’t want to lose her. But I think that’s part of my problem. Should I stop chasing her altogether? Or try to discuss the matter in person. We also can’t meet very often because of distance. What would you suggest in this situation?
Thanks.
