For 40 years I loved speaking. I won several debates in school. Was a sought after presenter at work. Was sent to difficult meetings. Became a writer. Ran workshops. Offered coaching to my clients and then i changed my track.
Now I prefer to listen. I try do it with truth & patience. I discover that it has not only helped me find my peace, but also improved my cordiality with the fairer gender around me.
Sharing the experience for all who may wish to think, reflect and/or meditate.