How Swinging Improved my Orgasms

Molly Frances
4 min readNov 15, 2019
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I have always possessed the ability to have ejaculatory orgasms. It was something that would happen occasionally after large amounts of foreplay. It was always surprising and never predictable. Until my first night at a swinger’s club.

Our first night at an on premise lifestyle club my husband and I spent a few hours chatting with other new couples, taking a tour, and dancing. At some point it all became too much, and I dragged him to the playroom and got down on my knees. While I was servicing him, I lifted my skirt to touch myself as well. I came hard, and squirted all over the floor.

Later that night we hit it off with another couple who propositioned us. While rolling around in bed with my husband, a tall blond woman, and her husband, I was overwhelmed by orgasm after orgasm. Each one brought a new meaning to the term squirt (which is actually a term I don’t like…can we have a sexier name please?). It didn’t stop there. I squirted more during penetration.

It’s as if the overwhelmingly sexual environment flipped a switch in me, allowing me to completely let go. Since that night I have had the most powerful, intense and…wet orgasms of my life. I…

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Molly Frances

Molly Frances’s writing explores what it means to be human: relationships, families, sexuality, mental health, and growth.