
“How to win friends and influence people” its an amazing book. And Dale Carnegie related so many incidents from daily life of several people. The quote i liked the most is;
“ You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than in two years by trying to get other people interested in you.”
It is absolutely a psychological influence on others. If you show interest towards someone without cupidity it will eventually win their heart. Help others, ask about them how they are doing, wish them birthdays and be with them in sorrows. Just always try to spread love and you will find love everywhere in the world eventually.
This is the basic moral our religion teaches and preaches. “Islam” it self basically mean “Peace”. Our beloved Prophet (PBUH) used to have a fair smile on face while meeting others regardless if some stranger came to see him. We have read many times a life incident of our beloved prophet Muhammad (PBUH) since our childhood. When once a lady in Mecca used to throw garbage and waste on the Holy Prophet (PBUH) to show her hate. But when on a day she was not there to throw waste, Holy Prophet (PBUH) asked about her and came to know that she was suffering fever, Holy Prophet instantly went to her, get her medicines and used to visit her until she was good. As she hated Islam and Holy Prophet before that incident, but afterwards her hate was replaced in deep love with Islam and Holy Prophet. She instantly became Muslim and apologized on her deeds. This was the care and interest of Holy Prophet for humanity which changed her whole world.
I was very furious and angry sort of person since my childhood. I used have fights with my siblings and mates. But gradually the teachings of Islam have brought a positive change in me. This book by Dale Carnegie is also a good piece. One must read it. Its all about humanity. Its all about caring. As our great great humanitarian Edhi Sahib had done.
I am practicing these things since my college life. And I have a good experience so far. I have so many friends but one thing i learned is that
“ Never become habituate of someone else neither make someone else your habituate.”

Just be fair in your dealings and do respect all others. Do show interest and help them out. Do Respect all the humans regardless their race, language and color. All the respect and interest will return back to you eventually. And word will be free of terror. Ultimately our planet will be a lovely place to live.
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