You might be the first feminist sounding girl I might actually respect.
I generally discard a lot of them for just masking their own issues under the feminism label and projecting hate outwards and victimising themselves.
On top of that most women lie to themselves about why they do what they do. (Men do too equally, but I'm just trying to stay relevant). Seems like you have done good amount of work in self-awareness to have reached your conclusions and answers.
As a guy who has seen the benefits of how pickup has changed my life, I agree with your views completely. I would love to hear about misogyny part in more detail. Might help me in my current w.i.p blog post. I am trying to remove the misogyny in the pickup materials so that it might appeal to a wider male audience who don't want to become assholes and yet be good with women.