When You Understand These “Unwritten Rules” of Love, Life Will Become Better

Queena Bryan
5 min readJul 5, 2024
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For love, each of us has beautiful expectations, but only when you understand how to cultivate love will your life become more beautiful.

Love is a Long-Term Investment:

Zhang Ailing once said: Good emotions are not about being suddenly moved to tears, but about being slowly pampered.

In real life, good emotions can make you happier and happier, while bad emotions will only waste your time.

If someone’s emotions come quickly, they will also leave quickly.

Their speed of falling in love with you determines their speed of leaving you, so true love requires a long-term investment, and those gentle details will touch your heart more. If someone’s love for you is just talk, then there’s no need to continue the relationship.

True healing doesn’t come from time, but from understanding. As time passes, you’ll realize that what you need is not those passionate loves, but those that are gentle and long-lasting.

If in a relationship, you can’t even feel basic happiness, then that love is a kind of torture for you. Gentle and long-lasting love can withstand the test of time, and as time passes, you’ll realize that those willing to accompany you are the…

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