How to Deal with Haters

DaJaNay Askew
4 min readSep 29, 2018

Everyone has haters whether we realize it or not. Haters are people who tend to be jealous and wish that they could be you. Haters come in various forms, such as your friends, family, coworkers, bosses, roommates, neighbors, significant others, and church members. Ironically, haters tend to be the people who are closest to you, which is why it is pertinent to realize who they are and deal with them accordingly.

Let’s be real, no one likes a hater and no one wants to be a hater, but it is a sad reality in our culture. Everyone is constantly competing and trying to “out-do” the next person instead of worrying about themselves. This type of behavior only fuels jealousy and it can be toxic. But, instead of dealing with this negativity, I am going to reveal to you how to deal with haters the right way.

Understand Why They are Hating in the First Place.

People can be envious others others for several different reasons. Some examples are: being attractive, being intelligent, having a high-paying job, getting a new car, having confidence, dressing well, having a…

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DaJaNay Askew

Realist, Educator, Entrepreneur, Ph.D student. Just a strong woman who’s passionate about improving lives of others while being completely transparent.