“Wow!.you’ve done a great job”
When people commend you that way, you dance and blush feeling all perfect.
But when people respond like;
I would do it! I will! Later! I need some more time.
What time do I need?
I have always nursed this feeling of not being heard, not being looked up to, not being acknowledged. It has held me back in numerous decisions I would have made in life.