Jul 13Member-onlyWho’s Training Our AI Apps?(Originally published on December 6, 2022.) Over the weekend, my Instagram feed was suddenly filled with stylized, artsy, fanciful portraits of friends and follows — the fruits of a new AI app called Lensa, from Prisma Labs. As I scrolled, I saw an army of avatars with flowing hair, glimmering…AI5 min readAI5 min read
Dec 18, 2022Member-onlyThat Other World CupLawyers with balls — Rachel Sklar National Post 07/12/2002 (In 2002, I went to Malta at the suggestion of some law school friends who were on the Canadian team heading to the Mundiavocat — the World Cup of Lawyers — and competing in the tournament. It was right after I quit practicing law but…World Cup7 min readWorld Cup7 min read
Published inForge·Nov 13, 2020Member-onlyA Win Is the Beginning, Not the EndHow to keep doing the work — For many, 2020 has been a time of increased civic awareness and involvement, whether we focused our energies on helping our neighbors deal with Covid, living more ecologically sound lives, joining in the fight for racial justice, or just devoting our attention to the election as if everything hinged on…Self Improvement6 min readSelf Improvement6 min read
Published inGEN·Sep 19, 2020Member-onlyDear Media: Don’t Both-Sides the Power Grab for RBG’s SeatThere are no two sides here. This is unprecedented and corrupt. — Ruth Bader Ginsburg has died, and, because it is 2020, we do not have the luxury of just mourning. Because it is 2020, even she did not have the luxury of passing in peace; instead, her final statement was an exhortation for procedural fairness in the Senate. “My most fervent…Ruth Bader Ginsburg7 min readRuth Bader Ginsburg7 min read
Published inForge·Aug 13, 2020Member-onlyWhy You Should Hire Your Harshest CriticJoe Biden’s selection of Kamala Harris as his running mate is a true lesson in leadership — I don’t know about you, but last week I was depressed about the Veepstakes. It felt like a redux of the bruising gender politics of ugly elections past. And then, suddenly, there was a pick: Kamala Harris! And my weltschmerz vanished — not just because Harris is a soul-liftingly historic…Leadership6 min readLeadership6 min read
May 10, 2020Member-onlyFor Mother’s Day, Give Her The Gift of TimeThat’s it. That’s what she wants. — Across all the mom groups I am in — and I am in a lot of mom groups — I hear gripes about time. Specifically, never having enough of it. These moms were used to having less of it than they wanted, obviously, but that was before the global Coronavirus…Mothers Day5 min readMothers Day5 min read
Published inForge·Apr 21, 2020Member-onlyHow to Deal When People Take Forever to Get to the Point“Bridgesplaning” might be annoying, but sometimes it has a purpose — There’s a classic Saturday Night Live sketch called “The Chris Farley Show,” in which Chris Farley fumbles his way through an interview with the music legend Paul McCartney: “Remember when you were with the Beatles, and you were supposed to be dead?” asks Farley. “That was a hoax, right?” “Yeah,”…Relationships6 min readRelationships6 min read
Apr 13, 2020Member-onlyThat Other Force Majeure SNL“SNL At Home” reminded me of Nov. 17, 2007 — the only other time the show was forced out of 8H — I watched “SNL At Home” last night, knowing it would be special, and historic. In Saturday Night Live’s 45-year history the show has only left Studio 8H three other times — for in 1976 to make way for NBC election coverage, in 1977 to broadcast a Mardi Gras special from…Saturday Night Live24 min readSaturday Night Live24 min read
Published inWake-Up Call·Mar 18, 2020Member-onlyWhen Your Home Becomes Your Office — And DaycareI’m a single mom. I’ve been there. — Hi. I hope you are doing okay. What a time we are in. Godspeed. Okay, to business. I’m a single mom to an almost-five year old. I work for myself — I run an online professional network for women and am a writer, lyricist and consultant — so not only…Culture6 min readCulture6 min read
Published inForge·Jan 15, 2020Member-onlyHow to Deal With a ManterrupterCalling attention to the problem leads to better behavior all around — Ever since the term “manterrupting” was coined in a 2015 TIME article, people have argued that it’s not a thing. I’m here to tell you that it is. And not just on debate stages (see Biden and Sanders this past summer) — also in your office, and maybe even at…Connect6 min readConnect6 min read