that is very beautifully written ,and so on point . Attractiveness love is love that is built on insecurities ,on not really accepting the real image of oneself ,but rather the image everyone else would have loved ,and that in itself is a very wrong approach ,and really how can a person who lacked self love and self acceptance , a person whose only viewed themselves with negativity and flaws see anything beautiful in others . If it weren’t all superficial .