Women are from Mars, too
We misunderstand each other with imprecise language
A singer I knew years ago sent me her new CD cover and asked what I thought.
I said, “I liked the (previous CD) cover a lot more.”
She wrote back, “Oh, yeah, I was pregnant with Sonny, and my tits were huge!”
Ironically, I’m not into women's breasts in particular, I was referring to the expression on her face. Maybe I should have said, so. Why, though, did she go there?
Complicated, I think. Her self-image, or her conditioning as a woman with large breasts? Maybe. Her opinion of me? No, because she didn’t know me at all.
Making intent more explicit is something I need to work on.