Life decisions and taking action

Rasmus Persson
Jul 20, 2017 · 3 min read

Almost everyday you can hear someone talking about how they wanna change their life or how they envy someone elses life. That’s a big issue in the society we live in.

Nowadays we got internet and social media that is exploding. More and more internet personalities are rising to be so called “famous”. Many people aim to be famous just beacause of that. They don’t know better and they particularly don’t have any goals. They only think about how other people will percieve them, which is a really bad mindset. It can break you when you realise you’ve worked for everything just so people can build a “good image” about you, he-or-she seems-to-have-a-good life-mindset instead of seeing yourself in the mirror and feel like you’re happy how you percieve yourself and how you managed your goals. When you love yourself and your hard work, people will start to take notice of that.

I don’t mean it’s a bad thing to realise you wanna change your life, more of the opposite actually. Change will always make you grow as a person, beacause you’ll be doing things outside of your comfort zone. Not the usual programmed routines that probably 90% of us have. My point is that most people tell them self or other people they wanna change so badly because they are unhappy with how their life are. When I hear someone say they want change or this or that I have a hard time believing it. I do believe they want change, but I don’t think they know how much hard work lays behind that.

Think about it, what you have to understand is that you wanna break the pattern, and for the most part people are giving up at the first road block and that’s human nature, when we feel discomfort we usually wanna do something that gives us comfort, boom you’re in the same kind of pattern again. This thinking loop will go around in your head your entire life without you actually doing somehing about it. Most of you can probably recognize this kind of behaviour.

If you have a dream, start it today and work hard for it and don’t let anyone else shape that dream or goal for you. When you thrive for something and are hungry for change, people will notice that very fast. Especially your closest and it’s very important not to break from that. If people start questioning your decisions just beacause you’re doing something different to change your life, instead of taking it as criticism or being sad. That’s progress and then you know that pattern is broken.

So do what you gotta do, walk out with a smile, put that swagger on and fulfill your dreams. If no one will be there for you, we’ll be here for you.

Always,

Team really unexpected

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Rasmus Persson

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Ecommerce owner, writer, thinker. Basic advice about stuff I find important. Wether it be life, motivation, success, business or whatever.

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