3 Types of People You Should Spend Your Time With

Ashish Kukreti
3 min readNov 4, 2023

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There are always people in our lives whose company we enjoy. Their mere presence in the room brings us an inexplicable joy. They possess an aura that naturally draws people towards them.

Today, we will discuss these individuals and explore five types of people with whom you should spend more time. Doing so will not only enhance your own personality but will also teach you the art of exuding a magnetic aura that attracts others. After all, who wouldn’t want to be charismatic?

You don’t need to imitate someone’s personality or “become like someone else.” Instead, you can observe the habits of these people and adopt the ones that benefit you the most. As it is often said, “you are the sum of the five people you spend the most time with.” The following are the five types of people you should consider spending time with.

Optimistic People

There’s already enough negativity in the world for you to be constantly surrounded by people with negative thoughts. Being with negative individuals also fills your mind with negativity. Optimistic people who maintain a positive outlook in every situation are the ones who navigate through life’s challenges with the least harm. They offer both themselves and those around them a sense of hope — a hope for a brighter future, which is sometimes all you need during dark times. After all, if you ever find yourself in a difficult situation, you’d prefer to have someone who holds onto hope and takes action to improve it, rather than someone who simply complains about the situation.

People Who are Quiet

Most of the time, the quietest person in the room is also the smartest. They are better at listening than they are at speaking, which makes them great learners. Spending more time with them exposes you to many new things. Many times, you find it unbelievable that someone so quiet has such a high level of knowledge.

People Who You Want to be Like

Everyone has goals in their lives, and each person has their own definition of success. For some, it’s about money, for others, it’s about fame, and some simply want to be musicians, among other aspirations. Yet, the common issue people face with these goals is where to start. The answer is simple! Spend more time with people you want to emulate. This way, you can learn about their journey and the challenges they’ve faced, many of which may be similar to what you’re currently experiencing. However, if you’re unable to do that for some reason, you can alternatively spend more time with people who are on a similar journey as you. No one will understand you better than those who are going through the same experiences.

Humans are social creatures that’s why we require friends, families and other social connections yet at the same time it is also necessary for us to mind the type of people we spend our time with.

I have few more in my mind if you would like me to add them. ^_^

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Ashish Kukreti

19-year-old writer & digital marketer with 3 & 1 yr exp, passionate about delivering value through this platform. 📝🚀 #Writer #DigitalMarketer