Union Is Not the Goal of Your Twin Flame Journey

If you feel uncomfortable reading this, you need to hear it

Reyna Park
3 min readDec 13, 2022
artwork by Astri-Lohne on DeviantArt

Twin flames are a gift from above. Divinely guided and pleasurably received, twin flames show you what you were missing out on your whole life: truthful, unabashed, strong and supportive love that just keeps on flowing and flowing. You came up for air that you didn’t even know was there. Sure, you’ve felt some version of love with people in your life before, but now you know it was a watered down version of what you’re capable of. Your twin flame awoke something within you. It completely transformed you, and obviously you want it back.

Stop. You need to hear this.

There is one important detail, the most crucial detail of all —

The love your twin flame showed you already existed inside of you.

& Now that you have touched this love, it is yours alone.

They didn’t “give” you anything or “put” anything inside you. Each moment spent with your flame was a purposeful and steady process of highlighting, surfacing and nourishing your natural capacity for love. Every human being holds this natural capacity perfectly within them.

So celebrate — It’s yours! It’s never going away. You can bask in its sheer ferocity. You’ve seen that your own love can incinerate doubt and overthinking, absorb fear and cradle it gently like a baby, and outshine all negativity until it turns into god momentum.

Our beings can become shrouded by ego and negative or low-vibrational energy. They can become obsessed or ruminative, churning out neurological impulses in our brain again and again, which over time produce low-vibrational energies in our auras, as our energy is being wasted. Obsession and desire for our twin flames are no exception.

We can think of this as the “kick-back” phase of a twin flame union and separation. One of you is running, and one of you is chasing, but neither of you can stop thinking about the other. This period can be hard for both of you, because you cannot stop.

You have been spiritually elevated into the 5d, but you run the risk of re-descending into 3d if you continue to pine after your eternal beloved.

The “kick-back” phase can be very painful, but not if you are well equipped with a crucial piece of knowledge —

There is a much higher way to spend your energy than thinking about your flame! The goal of your twin flame journey is not to reunite with your flame, but to spread love to every corner of our world.

The goal of your twin flame journey is to spread love to every corner of our world.

The best news of all of this is that by letting your love expand through your work, your friendships, your healing and through just being, you will feel the love again.

In fact, you can already access that love — if you take a moment to close your eyes and go inside, I bet you can feel it.

It’s always there.

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For more crucial information on how to manage your obsession with your twin flame, read here.

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