It is always nice to meet another Okie! Thank you for taking the time to comment.
I’d love to have a dialogue with you. You’ve brought up several points here that I am not sure which to address or what specifically it is that you are wanting to discuss. I’m not great at apologetics, my main wheelhouse is purity culture, legalism, and spiritual abuse. I am more than willing to discuss difficult topics and flaws within the church, I just need a bit more of a general direction.