“Someone who isn’t going to try to fix everything that’s wrong in their world…. but who will trust they are capable enough to find a solution on their own.” Some of us are ‘fixers’ and trying to fix the other person seems to consistently work out poorly for all concerned. This is really good advice for anyone to follow. “Someone…. who is willing to offer an opinion not an edict.” I find what you’ve written to be very helpful to me. This is part of what I’m diligently working on to do with everyone not just humans of the female persuasion. Thanks Teri!