Never get other people to judge you!

A lot of what’s going on for me lately get other people to question my abilities, decisions, and future plans. Well it sucks! no matter who you care for his/her opinion for any cause.

In fact seeing and hearing people who are telling you how doomed your life is now and for good is a crappy experience. For the sake of my statement I will tell you some reasons:

• They’re “Human-beings” just like you, they have experienced some failures also in some where during an era of their lives.
• They may be from different generation or age, they don’t know what you struggle with.
• As they were wrong before when they were in your shoe last decade or whatever, They can easily be wrong again the near future or further.
• There’s a great chance that they don’t share your dreams or believes.
• Even if sharing the same factors of life took place and the way of their thoughts coming up and be reserved as concepts like you, they don’t have the fate of yours.
• You are mentally stable enough to be wrong about something after deep-thinking and making decisions, then learn from its consequences.
• The odds of any experience are possible to happen, and knowing that you’re building on a percentage of risk makes you adventurer. They don’t get it!
• Never talk about causes with the people who talks numbers. It won’t make any sense to them. Your chance in convincing them is ZERO.
• If you aren’t strong enough to break walls of frozen minds, you don’t deserve your dreams, leave them for someone who can. You’re so weak and easy to talk to out of solid plans.
• If an elder says to you not to fly, show him/her the picture of themselves when they were flying young or fearing to fly.
• Always keep your reasons in your pocket, show them when you have to, share them with one who can understand so he/she may convince others as well.
• If you have to explain but you don’t know how. Find the believer among your people and the most respectful to be listened to.

You know what, I won’t complete this list for no reason. If you have a useful thing to be said to me, say it. If not, keep your nice mouth shut I don’t want to hear it.

I’m a dreamer, I’m a believer, and I have plans for other life too not just this messy one! I like who I am and What I do and I’m not even sorry!

You don’t like me? That’s the way things are going. Nobody asks to be liked from all population. ☺