You Will Search For Me In Another Person, I Promise.

A lawyer once said to me, ‘People often marry the same type over and over again, be it an alcoholic, be it whatever. People repeat patterns constantly and only a few ever learn the lessons that stop them from recreating their own misery’.

Years later when I started my relationship therapy training, those wise words came flooding back.

Sometimes we repeat patterns deliberately, other times we do it unconsciously.

Sometimes new partners even look like previous partners, wives or husbands.

And we repeat patterns often without understanding why.

Usually it’s because we don’t believe we deserve better — or it’s because it’s what we know and it’s what is safe.

Might you be repeating patterns because you feel you don’t deserve better?

Often it’s only when we stop, when we give ourselves time to reflect, that we begin to realise how we undermine and hinder our own progress.

I urge you therefore to give yourself some time to look carefully at what you might be creating for yourself that might be causing you unnecessary pain.

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© 2016 Deidré Wallace All rights reserved.

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About The Author

I am a fully UK qualified Psychodynamic Relationship Therapist, Life Coach and Teacher.

I am not offering relationship advice, I am offering relationship knowledge.

I encourage people to think differently and I help people understand how and why we choose our personal and business relationships.

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