The problem is: they are past experiences for me, but they are not in the past for women all over the world. I will not allow myself to be anyone’s victim again, and will do my absolute best to make people aware of how the problem starts and is perpetuated. Language is key: how we talk about somthing and/or someone directly relates to what we think and or feel about them and our thoughts and feelings guide our actions. And thus the cycle continues. Some weeds are so virulent and pervasive that mowing them over is not enough the root, no matter how deep, must be effected.