Yes please deflect and continue to make this discussion all about you and ignore the real problem.
It must be so easy for you to garner sympathy with your scars and the battles you fought validated by the public. Bruises and broken bones heal without them. The scars of rape are psychological although some women have been scarred or killed after. Verbal abuse leaves only internal scarring. How convenient for the men who perpetrate these abuses to leave their victims without physical evidence to garner a defense.
Your callous, ignorant, arrogant, self-righteosness disgusts me and I truly have nothing further to say to you.