The Snowflake Diaries: On ‘Mansmalling’
Luke O'Neil

6–4, 220 lbs here, and for most of my life I tried to shrink, stand back, slouch, and otherwise make myself small so as not to intimidate women and men alike. No more. If you smile, look people in the eye, offer a friendly ‘hello’ etc., you actually can give people a sense of peace — like having a gentle giant in their midst.

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