Hold Onto Your Girl For A Lifetime

Ask her this every single day when you wake up: “What can I do to win your heart today”? If you cannot fulfill her request, then ask for a compromise.

If you lose confidence in yourself and your ability to make her happy, then you lose. Ask her this every day: “What can I do to make you happy today”?, and then do it. If you are not able to fulfill her wish, then ask her for a compromise. If you love her, you have to try and win her over every single day.

Allow yourself to be vulnerable. Put yourself out there in the open to her. You must try every day to make her yours. If you don’t or are not willing to try, then you don’t deserve her. There will always be someone who can give her material riches, but you can make her feel loved and wanted instead, every single day. Trying every single day in earnest is what is important — -not if you succeed every time. That shows vulnerability, because you know she is not yours until you earn her love.

Gentleness, kindness, tenderness, thoughtfulness — all good qualities. Bringing her a coffee every day, providing meals for her, telling her you love her and holding her tightly for at least one full minute daily; having the confidence to be yourself and make her laugh. Kiss her like you mean it every day. All these things and more…….But, if you don’t fight for her every single day, then you are just a nice guy with good qualities, and no more. She wants to be loved and to do that you have to be vulnerable, every day. You have to let her know how you feel by putting yourself out there for her and everyone to see. Don’t be afraid to share your need for her. That just shows that you are strong because you are not afraid to make yourself vulnerable. If you love in a way that protects yourself…..giving her an out if you lose confidence or feeling like you are losing control…..”darling, I know I can’t give you the things that you want”, or accepting that you are not able to make her happy, then you have given up and you lose.

If you really love her?……ask her then, “What can I do to win your heart today”? She just may let you try.

……thoughts by Robert F Fary