I just try to keep my values, no more, no less. If sharing my stories helps anyone, then it was worth dealing with it. No one has a perfect life, but it’s the path to pursuing it that keeps people going. Oh, don’t sweat the joke, it was funny. Still not sure if they meant ‘pet smart' or ‘pets mart' seeing that they smashed it into one word (like Neanderthals) tells me they didn’t know either.