A potluck dinner has the effect of bringing a small community together. Anyone can come. The table is set. The dishes are based on the potluck arithmetic of make enough for yourself and your own, plus one. That way everyone is fed… even if they do not bring anything to the table.
It sounds like a lottery, however, it is more the simple stuff that binds, fosters and enhances a small community.
Could we, therefore, have a random potluck table available on the morning feed (notice the food reference that alredy exists here?) free from the recommends and comments?
Also, I do desire to dialogue with M members, but I do not, therefore, desire to wed them for life. Recommends seem to be akin to that other M word… marriage.