Stop overthinking. Stop procrastinating. Stop thinking the answer is in all this garbage. And stop re-reading more garbage thinking the next garbage post is somehow going to hold the answer. It’s not.
To truly reinvent aspects of yourself, you have to find the habit that created that trait in the first place — and then adjust the habit.
We want what others have. Because it secures our status in society. Does this make us happier? Yes and no. We value safety. But we also need ourselves.