smh.
Yes, a surrogate is far more expensive, but if you think its just a matter of getting a $300 dose of sperm to knock you up, you better look into it a lot more. Please compare apples to oranges.
If you dated only women, and only went to men because you wanted kids, then you are in fact looking at men to fulfill your “purpose” rather than looking for a “partner”. In other words, you are objectifying men.
And yes, older men quite often have an easier time getting younger women.
Women choose a mate, traditionally, in no small part on resources.
Yes, they’d rather have the guy with the hot bod, but given a choice between Mr. broke guy and the guy who can take her out and provide for her needs, the sensible choice becomes clearer.
As to guys wanted to date younger women and older women complaining.
That’s life. I’ve seen women that “used” to be hot and would turn up their noses at the hard working average guys. But now that “they” want to settle down and are willing to “settle” for that guy, they are astounded to find out that he does not want to be “settled” for. Why should he? You talk about guys not bringing forth the effort, but what exactly do you bring to the party to make yourself worth that effort?
You want a hard working guy, date him while he’s young and show him he’s appreciated. Work with him to make him successful and the smarter ones will attribute a significant portion of that success to you and stick with you.
