At 60, and at the end of MY career (retiring in June), it was quite enjoyable hearing your perspective at 25, and reflecting on MY past. I can certainly relate to the challenges you cite. At that age, we often get so caught up in “aspirations” that we don’t see the big picture, which includes happiness. Looks like you have figured much of it out! I hope that Cedar Heights played a role in your “life realizations,” and that going forward, God will continue to guide you, Paul!