“Unending rise in domestic violence”? Seriously? Please show some proof, because upon searching myself that is a completely unfounded claim with current data showing otherwise. If anything, past generations were far worse in terms of the normalization of domestic violence and sexual assault — remember how it used to be law that you can’t rape a woman if she’s your wife? I’m no fan of some ways that porn has affected culture, and strongly dislike abuse porn, but I find your claim completely untrue and demeaning towards women who simply enjoy certain things in the bedroom. I have had partners who really enjoyed rough sex, but demanded absolute mutual respect on a personal level. It’s totally fine if you aren’t into these kinds of things, but making claims about people who are is a pretty judgmental and unfounded thing to do.