
…ust, and hopefully the wisdom learned in these communities can filter out into the rest of society. Because when we act out of denial of our own needs, when we can’t admit what we want for ourselves and ask for it openly, we risk hurting other people and ourselves by seeking it covertly. And, until we can admit what we want, we’re unlikely to ever really get it. Men may get an approximation of intimacy, women may get an approximation of sex, but I think we hav…