Be interested rather than being interesting
Reading books enlightens a man and provide different aspects of thinking. While I was reading a book named “How to Win Friends & Influence People by Dale Carnegie” I have an amazing experience. I learnt a lot how to deal with people how to win their hearts. According to the writer if anyone wants to be good and famous writer he must be interested in people. He also shared a story of a great magician who was famous and to him his fame was due to his audience and he was thanks full to his audience for watching his shows and for believing him. The writer gave different examples of extra ordinary people who won the heart of their employs, their audience, their colleagues just by be interested in them by knowing them by remembering their names. He also narrates experience of a businessman who tries to sell fuel to well known selling company but failed but then he succeeded just by showing them how is interested in their company.
I have learnt a lot from reading of this book. The writer have a broaden mind. He have written no’s of ways to get loved by people. If we want to be loved by people then we should love them we should know about them we should respect them. I was impressed by his idea his way of thinking and have implemented in my routine. For a whole day when I meet my friends I ask about them how are you, what is going on their life, is everything is fine in their family, what’s their future plan etc. I showed interests in their life and it was an amazing experience for me. The more I asked about them, more they talked to me freely, more they asked about me. People are waiting for others to express their ideas. People are waiting to be cared. Everybody wants attentions.
SO from the book I learnt that if you want to be loved, if you wants friends then you must gave attention to people, ask about them, ask about their life, listen what they want to say. Then you can earn respect. And from my experience this whole idea was proved when I asked my friends about them , about their life they talked to me freely and asked about me about my life and about my goals. So if you take care of people then people will care for you.