Well… I am a father.. and I “had” two. Till this day I feel both with a pain that I can not explain. We were clearly not prepared to that spite all statistics say.
They were in fact not inside my body, but I felt like they were, and I don’t dare to try to understand what was the situation to my wife.
We manage to get two children after that, but that feeling of losing (don’t know how to express it in English) still persists in my mind.