Mar 28A rant about unsolicited coaching & adviceThis is a rant. I’m going to vent for this entire article. You’ve been warned. Let’s say you’ve been going to the gym for four months. You’re working with a personal trainer and your goals are to gain strength, resilience, longevity and have more energy. You’re noticing some strength gains…Rant4 min read
Mar 22The Joy List: What a blow to the head taught me about the pursuit of pleasureIt was December 2017, and I was sitting on a cot in the emergency room of Christiaan Barnard Memorial Hospital in Cape Town, South Africa. I had a nasty gash on my arm and a lump on the back of my skull. …Joy7 min read
Mar 10Making peace with my inner 12-year-old boyI can’t stand the song “More than Words” by Extreme. This sappy acoustic ballad was played on the radio every day in the early 90s and it sounds to my ears about as pleasing as nails on a chalkboard. I’ll come back why I loathe this song in a minute. …Dating6 min read
Mar 3Being a “full yes” to childrenHere is an update to my search for a life partner. First of all, I want to thank the many of you who supported my vision and shared my post asking for help to find the one. …Relationships3 min read
Mar 2Seeking my life partnerDear Friends, I am conducting a romantic experiment and I would like your help! (Please read this post to the end — it will be worth it…) I am searching for my life partner, but I have not been able to find her on my own. While today’s swipe dating…Dating2 min read