Thank you for this. ‘Cept #7 getting into people’s marriages just doesn’t work. No outsider ever can truly know whether Madam actually means ‘yes’ to mean ‘no’ or the opposite. If no one enjoyed being ‘forced’ there would not be bondage.
Hopefully there are less men who do not know these things already and more women who will know they are deserving of these same things. Self esteem in both sides will help with much of these ‘disappointments’.