You said that you didn’t believe that your boyfriend would have had a restraining order filed against him for a few hellos and friendly emails, but later said that you were going to file a restraining order against another ex of his based on his conjecture? That doesn’t add up.

I’ve been in relationships wherein I have progressively transitioned to accepting things that I otherwise wouldn’t have accepted at the start, like a downward spiral, but what you are suggesting is that even your bigger-picture reasoning was influenced by him. Did you forget how restraining orders work and your position on them?

In your article, your ex comes off as a total nutbag who couldn’t let go of the women in his life. And come off as an attempted re-educating savior who was blinded by his brilliance. Seriously, there seems some major discordance between the guy couldn’t stop talking of past girl friends, which you were hip to and the silver-tongued devil who turned you against women.

There are two sides to every story, and (I’m sorry) it doesn’t seem that you have projected a balanced report on all this. After reading this, I find myself wondering I wonder what he’d have to say about you.