The Imposter Syndrome
Julie Zhuo

It’s an amazing article i loved it. And felt completly decribed there. But i think guys have their share of the sindrome too. But we would never say it.

When you say that “being found as an imposter is the greatest fear” that’s specially true for men. We are supposed to be descisive and confident. We are supposed to do many things that not all of us can do so easily. And to be strong. We are told our entire life “men don’t cry”.

That 'cry' means not only the act itself but also any kind of weakness or complaint.

It’s hard feeling unacepted. But now i have a name for my lifelong pretending behavior