I made some great points in my response and he dismissed them entirely for a childish and ignorant response. I’m not obliged to be nice or polite to my oppressors. It wasn’t a “valid” critique, it didn’t critique anything I actually had to say. It just dismissed it off hand.
Not only do you demand we be punching bags, but you demand we take it gracefully. That’s some of the most abusive thinking imaginable.