The Right/Wrong Game

In relationships

Robert Solley
9 min readApr 2, 2016


Not eye to eye.

Beyond our ideas of right-doing and wrong-doing,
there is a field. I’ll meet you there.

— Rumi

You’ll see this quote by Rumi on a lot of couples therapy websites. It’s a good quote, and we all have some idea of what it means. Most of us have had the experience of getting caught up in the unhelpful “who’s right” type of argument. It’s a power…