Robert Carr
Aug 22, 2017 · 1 min read

Very important stuff here. Simple advice that can make a huge difference. May I give a suggestion from the male viewpoint. It is perfectly fine to just “take care of his needs” once in a while; however, it’s not OK to feign desire when it’s not there or worse, satisfaction that didn’t happen. I suggest always making it rather clear that “this time it’s for you.” In this situation I and probably most guys would rather lay back and get oral. There is something distasteful about coitus with an unenthusiastic partner.

Now this works best if from time to time you let your partner reciprocate. No one wins if things are only one sided. It happens rarely but nothing is more wonderful than having my wife say “this time it’s for me!”

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