you seem to somehow invite a pattern of unwanted advances?
Perhaps you need to set your own boundaries better? Even a long time stalker didnt pull any of this kind of crap on me; as for locker room talk- its been going on for centuries as men are perceived to have to be the brave initiator/aggressors in romantic relationships and yes, sexual encounters.
Romance novels thrive on the passionate engagement of seduction.
Most men, however DO respond clearly to actions — and word N O