He never said you don’t want it enough. He said you don’t want it. Full stop.

It’s a different story if you want it but can’t get through it due to other factors. But that’s a whole different article.

And I think as an adult you can read an article and decide “he’s not talking about me” and move on. This is an opinion, and you don’t need to accept it. If it doesn’t work for you, find someone’s opinions who do. You’ll be better off for it rather than trying to coerce someone else to change their opinion to fit your views.