First, feminism is blatant women’s advocacy. Militant or not.
You want men to change to suit women, both in how they view women, as well as for men to become more like women. (You have stated as much).
Any civilizations that did this, perished… for if they have not, then where are they? Show me the civilization that banished all gender roles and rose to prominence.
Did you understand my questions about parenting?