Honestly you keep saying you dont want to force cisgender men to date anybody but also that we’re wrong for not wanting to date transgendered people. It’s our right to not date a transgender if we dont want to. Just because you see yourself one way doesnt mean everyone else does. I respect transgenders right to identify howerver they want but I still would consider a person born a male a male. I would consider myself gay to date someone born as a male. Wether you agree or not has nothing to do with you. I can identify myself enganging in that act however I want. Then to group me into a group or potential homicidal maniacs based off of past experiences that have nothing to do with me is a form of prejudice. Guess what if you have to deal with rejection for exposing yourself for who you are entirely so what. Everyone else has to deal with the same thing. If someone doesnt like you for who you are fuck them. Go find someone who does you will live a happier life.