It’s symptom of there is always something better. Throw away your phone we have something better. Need a new car well this is your lucky day. Oh no you don’t like your boss lets take care of that.
Love isn’t about perfect, its a commitment to work on it and yes that means settling sometimes. That’s not sad, its beautiful because you love someone more than you love getting your dick wet just the way you like it.
We make sex into a god that we must bow before while we cast aside the important things. Loyalty, trust, good conversation, support they might not be sexy but they are far more likely to make you happy.