Clinton Lewis
Aug 24, 2017 · 1 min read

Men do not get unconditional love. Maybe from you spot you see that but I can tell you that it simply doesn’t exist. We are judged by criteria that woman aren’t.

1: How much we make always comes up in conversation and it has been statistically proven that men who make more get more dates. We constantly try to be better providers scared that our woman will seek a better mate that can treat her better.

2: How we look is constantly a war we fight. I know a guy that works out like crazy because he is convinced no woman will be with him at his current weight. His last two long term girls broke up with him for exactly that reason.

3: There is no end to what we to be. Perfect husband, lover, friend, homemaker, society tells us that a man can do it all. So we try until we burn out and then feel guilty for not being good enough.

These are only some of them problems that we as men face. I can’t know what it’s like to be a woman in a relationship but I can tell you that being a man in a relationship is a pressurized painful time fraught with the worry that you are never enough.

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