My girl is about as feminist as you can get. And by feminism I mean be able and willing to do the job of a man. Given the chance to stay at home and take care of that she’d take it. As long as she was satisfied the finances would be okay.
Where as for me I like working. I enjoy going to work and feel better with that schedule in my life. In a perfect world she’d be able to stay home and I’d work. Out of preference.