Tbh! I just recently took a break from a relationship with a “love avoidant” and everything you’ve said resonates with me. I never knew there was such a thing as a “love anxious” and a “Love avoidant.”
Being with him was hard. I couldn’t understand it and my trust kept waning. All the time I thought he was cheating but my gut kept telling me he was not. I don’t know how a “love anxious” and “Love avoidant” could co-exist in a relationship. It seems like a pretty difficult road.
Lastly, thank you for your post. Now I understand him a lot better.